2014-08-09

2014 summer vacation

From the past few years, summer vacation seems like was the busiest time during the year in my life. This year summer vacation I had three camps at the beginning of July, and then I went to Caux + London for a week each. Came back to Taiwan a day before the APYC started. APYC will finish tomorrow.
Kids’ camp I worked with senior high school students. During the school time I met them once in two week and we had different training. In the winter and summer vacation they helped with the kids’ camp. Summer vacation kids’ camp the senior high school students in charge of everything, from the leaflet design, doing the budget, thinking about the program, and making all the name tag, handout. It was not easy to sit back and wait for everything happened. Many times I thought things delayed and felt panic but looked at them, they seemed not worry at all. Working with them trained me a lot in “letting go”.
This time we had 24 kids and 20 senior high school students. Because of the number of the kids we didn’t have enough money to cover the whole expend. The kids they paid fee to attend and we were hoping the money they paid can cover the senior high school students’ fee as well. I shared this situation with the senior high school students and we were trying to get more kids to attend but it wasn’t work out. So instead of looking for more kids I was thinking how to find money to support the camp. I thought about many of my friend, my students’ parents quite support what I am doing, I could invite them to donated some money. I shared with lady A and she thought about another lady B whose daughter I am now doing one to one talk every week. Then I received a phone call from this lady B said she will like to cover all of the money which I needed for the camp fee. Thanks her so much, and can sense what I am doing been lead by a higher power.
Youth camp I worked with university students, the same they took on everything, and the same I was facing my “worry” and “trying control”. During the youth camp we let junior high school students took care of their basic living, so they needed to clean the classroom and the toilet by themselves, enter the kitchen to cook for the meals, and went to the market to buy food. Enter the kitchen was the biggest challenge. Most of them never cook before and was the first time cooking for 30 people. The first day they try to use electric pot to cook rice but they forget to plug the plug.
During the youth camp they also learned to schedule the timetable for the camp. They need to decide in the small group when they wanted to wake up in the morning, when for breakfast, lunch, dinner, when to go to bed, when for the first session to start. They need to think carefully otherwise no time for cooking or cleaning the classroom. After decide in the small group then they needed to negotiate in the big group so 30 of us agree the timetable together. There were a lot of patience and communication inside the negotiation.
I was in Caux for a week. Accompany two of my students there. They attend the internship program. It was nice to see so many familiar faces in Caux but not all of them I had chance to catch up. Everyone was so so busy with different things. It was nice to be there after the tiring camp I had in Taiwan. My time in Caux was relaxing and can get some rest to recover from the tiredness.
Then I went to UK for another week. I met some friends and tried to be a tourist. Most of the travel I did was for different programs and then I might have one or two days can look around. But this time in UK no program. Unusual feeling. It was nice to meet up with Keith and Kofi, two old friends from AFL2. I enjoyed looking around in London and Oxford and I also had two days enjoyed the countryside Lancashire.
Now, back to Taiwan, because of APYC I also met a lot of friends here. But I wasn’t attending the whole program because one of my secretaries went to join and I need to take on her work in the EQ office.
Thanks for reading and wish you a happy summer.

H.Y

2014-08-03

小青蛙歐洲遊


這一趟的歐洲之行,確切成行原因為何,我也不是很清楚,反正我對外的說法都是:有學生在瑞士柯峰做實習生,我帶他們去,順便度個小假,回台灣前再轉去英國見見朋友。每個理由都看似很牽強,但每個理由又都是一個好理由。


飛機旅程
飛歐洲其實很累,因為時差的問題,通常都是半夜飛去,抵達了之後又要調整自己的時差。人生第一次飛去杜拜轉機,光聽杜拜就感覺很酷,杜拜果然是有錢的地方,機場很漂亮也很氣派,一趟轉機也走了好多路,沒機會好好逛,因為我是在迷迷糊糊中抵達,當時最大的願望就是找到一個地方可以窩下來睡覺。回程雖然也在杜拜機場轉機,但是因為轉機的時間非常的短,幾乎是一抵達就被地勤人員送上下一班飛機,逛沒逛到,又是走了好多路。
飛歐洲總共飛了約14小時,分成兩段旅程,一段8小時,另一段6小時,雖然在飛機上睡不好,但是我很喜歡吃飛機餐,也喜歡在飛機上看電影,還算是挺享受的,雖然很想嘗試飛機上的泡麵,只是已經被餵的飽飽的,實在塞不下。最佩服的是回程8小時,我左邊一位外國男士一直睡,連動都沒動,而且有吃有喝還不用上廁所,厲害!



瑞士科峰
來歐洲度假簡直在燒錢,回想我每一趟的旅行都是跟工作有關,特別是在亞洲、東南亞地帶,出國都是去協助活動、幫忙帶領活動,然後會有個一天到兩天到處看看,還蠻喜歡這樣的旅行方式。來到歐洲,許多人是熟悉的,但是他們的活動、工作方式不是熟悉的,熱臉貼冷屁股說我要幫忙,也不是我的作為,所以度假變成一個很大的可行性。在科峰很高興看到許多熟悉的臉孔,但有沒有時間聊聊敘舊是個問題,因為整棟大房子裡面大家都好忙,只有我最悠哉的感覺。有的時候想想自己在台灣的生活,其實我也很忙,但是見朋友、吃飯聊天,還是可以撥出時間的,也不禁納悶那他們在忙些什麼?生活、工作真的有這麼忙嗎?
這次是陪兩位大學生去的,許多人說他們夠大了,我一定要陪嗎?老實說,其實不用,但是我曾經是被出來的,如果可以,我也希望陪伴我身邊的年輕人,我相信很多事情他們可以獨自面對、接受挑戰,但是知道身後有一個人的感覺,是踏實的。我只陪他們短短一個禮拜,同時間也希望幫他們介紹一些人,特別是長輩們,因為IofC裡面有太多有趣的長輩,跟他們聊天說話就是一種學習。跟別人說我陪學生來,得到的反應是兩極的,有些人覺得我很浪費,明明他們就這麼大了,還把他們當小孩一般,但是也有些人說現在想我這樣在生命陪伴的人不多了,很感動,有些年輕人也挺羨慕我這兩個學生有人陪,因為他們是孤單的來面對所有的新環境、新事物。
這次來科峰我也有參加一個會議,但是我簡直是放牛班的代表。早上的大會9:30-10:30,但是我被分配到housekeeping幫忙9:00-10:00,回到大會場地的時候,主講者都已經講完話了,接下來的90分鐘小組時間,大家討論在大會時聽到的內容,我根本沒有聽到,所以只能一直沉默,但是聽他們的討論,有時候會感覺他們講的好遙遠,討論一些理論,但是沒有跟實際生命做很多的結合,所以四天下來的小組時間,我對他們每個人的認識少之又少,我想他們也沒有很知道我到底是在做啥吧。
下午工作坊的時間,我一個也沒參加,就跟著其他人去山下走走晃晃,而晚上通常都是看表演。這一個會議我有學到什麼嗎?或是有被啟發什麼嗎?沒有,因為我的參與度真的不高,小小對不住主辦團體。
離開瑞士的時候,遇到扒手,不得不佩服他的手法,趁我在搬行李上火車並走到座位這短短幾分鐘內,神不知鬼不覺地拿走我的小錢包,更厲害的是我朋友們都站在我身後,也沒發現有人開我的後背包。裡面是瑞士法郎約台幣9000元,說多不多,少也不少,身邊的朋友都很驚訝也很擔心,但是我發現自己的心情還算平靜,很冷靜地接受這一件事情。有扒手在這車站的事情我已經聽說過,我想我在月台上就被盯上了,是我自己不小心,雖然有損失,但是已經很小了,因為證件都沒被拿走,其他幣值的鈔票也都另外收,所以身上也還是有錢,比較心疼的就是那個小青蛙的小錢包,希望扒手善待它。
剛好這一陣子飛機失事的事情頻傳,如果9000元可以買平安,花錢消災,那我想也很值得,小小的事件,但也看到我是被老天爺照顧著,所以心裡很感謝。





倫敦


倫敦之旅是一個挑戰,雖然有朋友在,但他們各自都有事情要忙,不可能天天陪伴,所以挑戰自己看地圖、摸索城市的功力。因為事前沒有好好做作業,也不知道怎麼在倫敦當觀光客,我喜歡看看風景、景點之類的,但我實在不是博物館、百貨公司的常客,臨時想到倫敦應該有許多演出可以看,問了朋友,他給了我網站的資訊,抵達之後發現住宿地點的附近就有演出,其中有一場是「舞動人生」的舞台劇,其他的演出也都在坐地鐵不遠的地方,比較難抉擇的就是「獅子王」、「歌劇魅影」、「悲慘世界」到底要看哪一場,因為我沒有那麼多時間可以看,最後我選擇「悲慘世界」。在歐洲所有的消費都好貴,但是「舞動人生」花我台幣約1500元,「悲慘世界」約2200元,整個感覺就是我賺到了,特別是「悲慘世界」,一聽到前奏出來,人就醉了~




當觀光客真的不容易,有幾天我是晚上看完演出晚晚回來,隔天早上又要早早起當觀光客。我去買了一張24小時的觀光巴士車票,停的站都是景點,隨時可以上下車,也可以選擇坐一圈,本以為坐一圈不久,沒想到一問也要2個小時,另一條路線還3個小時,天啊!!但是透過坐巴士,讓我對倫敦稍稍了解一些,最享受的是看不同的建築,他們的建築都好美,我想除了造型之外,是他們用的材料,比較多是石頭蓋起來的房子,不像台灣都是用磁磚裝飾出來的。



牛津一日遊
牛津,雖然是地名,但我也一直以為是個大學,像成功大學那樣有個校區,沒想到去了之後才發現根本沒校區,只有一棟棟的學院,學院跟整個城市融合在一體,走在牛津裡面,根本也分不出來誰是學生,誰是居民,誰是觀光客,本來還想說可以假扮一下當牛津的學生。建築物依舊是美,每個學院的建築各有特別,光是學院就有40多個,我其實有點搞不懂學院的作用,只知道每個學生一進學校就需要選擇一個學院。那天我也跟一些博士生一起上了一課,果然人家是讀博士的,一個小時的課我有聽沒有懂,討論的話題,用的英文單字,都在我的能力範圍外,我發呆的狀況居多,我不適合走學術派,只要跟博士生做朋友就好,我不用去當博士。








蘭開夏郡 周末放鬆
我一直以為自己是去曼切斯特,結果我只是坐火車到那個火車站,就被載到鄉下小地方,英國的城市跟鄉下很不一樣,在蘭開夏郡時我住在朋友家,也是透過他們的帶領才比較認識英國人的生活模式、吃飯模式,很多店如果是我自己經過,我不敢進去因為都只看到酒吧,一群人在那喝酒,怪可怕,但是跟著朋友我們進進出出不同的酒吧,而且非進去不可,進去了才有飯吃。在鄉下沒有太多事情可以做,最常做的就是出去散步走走,走一走就找地方坐下喝一杯,可以是啤酒,也可以是杯茶,但是最妙的,真的只有飲料,他們沒有習慣再配個下酒菜之類的,純喝啤酒或是喝茶,他們還說只要一有機會他們就會去喝一杯。





我見的人
這次真的是來見朋友的,而且都是老朋友。老朋友的感覺就是很久沒見了,但也不覺得陌生,以下按照多久沒見來排列。
Marshall 2012日本亞太青年營認識,2年沒見。

Kofi 2003 國際生命行動2認識的,2009年還有在科峰碰到,約5年沒見。

Keith 2003 國際生命行動2認識的,約10年沒見。

Aunty Gail 我高中的時候來過台灣,約14年沒見。